As we enter the 21st century, we are faced with a world which is totally different from the one previous generations have known. We are connected as we have never been before. Television can quickly inform us of events anywhere in the world. Thanks to the Internet, information on numerous topics is as far away as our personal computers.
The economic union between the European nations (European Union) and the North American nations (North American Free Trade Agreement) serves as a reminder that we live in a world where nations have agreed to cooperate in order to prosper. However, despite our technological and economic advances, we still face many major environmental problems, and poverty and homelessness in prosperous nations.
<span style=”font-weight:bold;”>THE CASE FOR A PARTNERSHIP AGREEMENT</span>
I believe that living conditions in the world can only be improved if we have an equal partnership between men and women. Of course, men and women, on a daily basis, work together to provide the numerous services required for the smooth running of our society. Since time immemorial, they have cared together for their families. However, what I am proposing is an equal partnership at the highest levels of our political and corporate spheres.
Before I elaborate on this last statement, let me explain what I mean by a partnership agreement. I am not saying that Western women should approach their male leaders and ask for an equal role in governing their respective countries and running the corporations which provide the services our society requires. This has been tried before and it didn’t work. Indeed, if we think about it for a moment, it will never work. Nobody relinquishes the power they possess unless forced to do so. Women make up half of the population. They should be able to control their political and economic destinies. When the time comes, an agreement can be entered into with the cooperation of our male leaders, or against their will.
Why do I believe that the above mentioned agreement can help us resolve our problems? Before I answer this question, let me turn to biology for a moment.
One of the most striking features of sexual reproduction is that two individuals, the parents, contribute to the formation of the offspring. Each parent will bring his or her own characteristics (genes), and the offspring will possess new combinations of characteristics.[i][i] Put another way, the offspring has most of the characteristics of his parents, but is otherwise a new individual. This technique allows for the infinite variety of individuals and permits the building of a human society with all the varied talents necessary to keep it going.
I submit that this technique, which requires the cooperation of both the male and female of our species, is paralleled by another, and unrelated, technique. I surmise that God has created males and females differently not only on the physical level, to provide us with the above mentioned multiplicity of talents, but also on the mind level. Why else would men and women often think, and approach problems, in a different way? Why else do they sometimes drive each other to distraction when they try to reconcile points of views which are otherwise irreconcilable because they are gender-driven? God did not create us different to annoy us! There is a good reason for that. We are different because we need to complement each other. Above all, we need to augment each other in the way we govern ourselves. We have not done this throughout our 5,000 years of history. How, in my opinion, do men and women serve to complete each other?
For the purpose of this article, I have coined the term complementary qualities. What are complementary qualities? Complementary qualities are traits that are more pronounced in women than they are in men. For example, if I say that women possess the complementary quality of compassion, I mean that women are more compassionate than men. I am certainly not saying that men are not compassionate, nor am I stating that all women are compassionate. There are women who totally lack warmth and understanding.
Do men possess complementary qualities? Of course, they do! It works both ways. The complementary qualities of men will not, however, be mentioned in this article. In my view, they need to be observed and described by a woman (or women). For me (a man) to do so would be a difficult task. Moreover, this is an unnecessary exercise. Men are already in government, and society is already benefiting from their complementary traits. The issue at hand now is to have society benefit from the complementary qualities of both men and women.